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When I was a young boy I got in trouble all the time. I don’t know what it is about boys, but they just seem to attract trouble like steel is to a magnet. My parents did the best they could with the tools they had. My parents believed in spanking. At the time I thought it was cruel and unusual punishment. As a parent, I employed the same punishment. I think some children need drastic measures at times to get through to them. My oldest son now 33, was extremely had to reach. He’s turned out OK. I think his brothers learned from his mistakes, I very rarely had to spank them. Now, I’m not totally opposed to this type of punishment as long as it is done with great care. I did not grow up with any lasting scars. I’m really thankful my parents loved me enough to care about the way I turned out. I love my father and have somewhat fond memories of being chased around in a circle with a belt. But most of all I’m thankful they instilled, a respect for right and wrong.
My brother on the other hand has never laid a hand on his three children. He used the time-out method. I can say without a shadow of a doubt his children have done very well. I do think these forms of punishment require more thought, patients, and consistency. Never-the-less it worked for him and I’m glad for him.
The only thing that makes me mad is to see a parent that does nothing. An undisciplined child is the most embarrassing thing I’ve ever seen. I wouldn’t do it, but I want to slap the parent. Some would say they love their child to much to inflict pain or “they might hate me if I send them to timeout”. I don’t think they really love their child or they wouldn’t let them go through life undisciplined. Undisciplined children certainly will have a hard time adjusting to life.
Proverbs 3:11,12 says, “My son, do not reject the discipline of the LORD, or loathe His reproof, for whom the LORD loves He reproves, even a father, the son in whom he delights.”
Have you ever been disciplined by the Lord? I have, I’ve been spanked and gone through time-out, and while I can say it hurts I can also say, it feels good to be loved. My Heavenly Father has certain expectations of me, He wants me to be like my Older Brother, Jesus Christ. Posted by Steve Waltrip
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